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Harville Hendrix

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., is the author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, a New York Times bestseller that has sold more than two million copies. He has more than thirty years’ experience as an educator and therapist. He specializes in working with couples in private practice, teaching marital therapy to therapists, and conducting couples workshops across the country. Dr. Hendrix is the founder/director of the Imago Institute for Relationship Therapy. He lives in New Jersey and New Mexico.http://us.macmillan.com/author/harvil...

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Such a relationship is often less passionate and less troubled than those characterized by a closer match. The reason it is less passionate
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passionate is that the old brain is still looking for the ideal “gratifying object,” and the reason it tends to be less troubled is that there isn’t the repetition of so many childhood struggles. When couples with weak imago matches terminate their relationships, it’s often because they feel little interest in each other, not because they are in great pain. “There wasn’t all that much going on,” they say. Or “I just felt restless. I knew that there was something better out there.”
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“I know we’ve just met, but somehow I feel as though I already know you.” This isn’t just a line lovers hand each other. For some unaccountable reason, they feel at ease with each other. They feel a comfortable resonance, almost as if they had known each other for years. I call this
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