John Kim

e don’t know how to draw boundaries with Sharpie instead of chalk.

Because there’s more to life than who we choose to love.

Your patterns. Your definitions. How you love and why. Your dreams. The dent you want to make in this world. You must explore your relationship with self. You must be with yourself first.

yes, you can want a partner, but life doesn’t have to stop be

because you don’t have one

Asking myself Where am I going? before asking myself Who is going with me?

Your curiosity leading you to explore, learn, grow, and expand. When you actually build your own life, a life that is honest to you and stands on its own, the fear of being alone starts to fade.

That’s the truth, and if you don’t start with truth, you’re really not starting

We attach ourselves to others, and to their opinions of us, because we don’t have a strong sense of self.

We continue to push through, to chase things that are not honest to us, falling into the same patterns that create the same experiences and cement the same beliefs.