Falling in love is not something we actively do; it happens. Once in love, however, there's a lot we can do to keep that love healthy, fulfilling and very much alive. In fact one of the most powerful ways to improve the quality of our love lives and relationships is to take care of the love itself. This book describes how to find out what your relationship needs and how to provide for those needs in a series of practical exercises. It also explains why there are fights and difficulties in every relationship, and why frequently, the more deeply we have fallen in love, the more intense the conflict. This book also tells you how you can use the struggles of a relationship to discover more about your own love and what it needs. Learning how to love and be loved is one of the greatest adventures we humans can undertake. How to Make Your Relationship Work is an original and valuable guide on this journey.