The Secret of the Shadow

But as soon as you recognize your story, make peace with it, and extract its vital ingredients, you can step out of the smallness of your lowest thoughts and step into the fulfillment of your greatest dreams.

“Every aspect of me and my life contributes an essential ingredient that allows me to fulfill my Divine purpose.”

You might not be expressing the Divine in your current form, but I assure you that once you transform your emotional wounds you will see their perfection.

We need to be able to look at our entire history—including our traumas, handicaps, failures, and life circumstances—and say, “Thank you, God, for giving me that.” Because these experiences were tailor-made to support us in delivering our unique contribution

Preparing to write my second book, Spiritual Divorce, forced me to grow and expand and take responsibility for my reality, no matter what my ex-husband—or anyone else, for that matter—was doing.

In order for you to see your whole self and to view your true magnificence, you must step outside your story.

Your unique contribution lies dormant, waiting for you to collect all the experiences you need to fulfill your piece of the puzzle

Our resistance to being nothing, to having nothing, and to being a nobody is at the very core of our human struggle

We can decipher our unique themes by listening carefully to the conclusions we have made about the events of our lives. These conclusions shape our existence and drive our personalities.

personal dramas always have a theme, which repeats itself over and over throughout our lives