Job Interview Success for Introverts

There are truths, though, that set introverts apart from extroverts; truths that put introverts at a disadvantage in life and the job search, especially at the all-important interview. Some of the strengths introverts possess can be faults, particularly when it comes to verbal communications. Talking, small talk to be precise, is a challenge for introverts because they feel the need to think before speaking, whereas extroverts will speak before thinking. Because of their inclination to think before talking, introverts are often left out of conversations.

In the job search, talking is integral to one's success. You can't rightfully go to a networking event and an interview and expect not to talk in the manner people expect you to. In other words, there are unspoken rules about conversing at networking events and interviews. Organized networking events are attended by people who see them as an opportunity to sell themselves. Often there is small talk which leads to delivering an elevator pitch. If the two parties are interested in what the other is selling, the conversation can extend. Some networkers like to "work the room," which means meeting as many people as possible, collecting as many business cards as they can. This is considered a success for the extroverts.

But if all of this were true, how were you capable of talking with complete strangers, even approaching them, or want to be with your peers and attend social gatherings? How was it that some of your friends accused you of talking too much? And how have you been able to rub elbows with authorities in your town or city, to make small talk with the best of them? You were behaving more like an extrovert, weren't you? No, you were behaving like an introvert, able to adapt to your setting, and doing all the things mentioned here was a result of your introversion.

Now being an introvert doesn't seem so bad, does it? In fact, being an introvert has its benefits. You are an intelligent conversationalist. You think before talking and, therefore, don't make as many faux pas as some of your extroverted friends and colleagues. You are an engaged listener who doesn't think about what you'll say next before totally hearing the other person out. Being alone doesn't upset you; rather, you enjoy going to the movies alone and eating alone. Your friends and family can't understand this. You love writing and do it well. There are many things about being an introvert that you appreciate, feel comfortable with, and wouldn't want to change.

Preface
So, you're an introvert
I was in my mid 40's when I discovered my preference for introversion. Until then, I thought I was an extrovert, mainly because I could, and still can, talk with ease to complete strangers. Truth be told, I hoped that my preference was for extroversion, not introversion, simply because society favors extroverts in most aspects of life: school, work, social interaction, and the job search, to name a few. I doubted my acceptance and didn't speak proudly of my preference until I learned more about the Myers-Briggs Type Inventory.

Do you remember when you learned your preference for introversion? Were you in doubt like me? Did you have a sense of dread thinking of the stereotypes of introverts, such as shy, loner, standoffish, aloof, recluse, or rude? Furthermore, you may have believed that introverts couldn't make small talk or associate with important, outgoing people.

As a testament to her expertise, Adrienne has been the recipient of several prestigious industry awards, including six Awards of Excellence for outstanding resumes and outstanding online profile development from Career Professionals of Canada, as well as an international TORI Award (Toast of the Resume Industry) from Career Directors International. Her work has also been published in two national resume and cover letter books.

To learn more about Adrienne's specialized offerings for senior-level professionals, managers, directors, executives, and aspiring leaders, contact her at Career Impressions: www.careerimpressions.ca or info@careerimpressions.ca.

Adrienne Tom is an award-winning resume strategist and interview coach in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, with a passion for guiding senior-level professionals through the discovery of what sets them apart. Collaborating together, Adrienne works closely with senior professionals to develop leading edge marketing tools that help them stand out and advance their careers.

In addition to over 10 years in the career industry, Adrienne is a Certified Professional Resume Writer (CPRW), Certified Employment Interview Professional (CEIP), Certified Resume Strategist (CRS), and a member in good standing with three national and international career associations.

Prior to becoming a professional coach, Karen M. Caito has had 25 years of expertise as a pharmaceutical sales representative. Being an introvert and building confidence is a journey. She was able to experience first-hand how to thrive in an extroverted world by using several "techniques" to increase her confidence level so that she could achieve her life goals and create her niche coaching brand, Confidence Coach for Introverts. What she does best is help the overwhelmed, exhausted professional to become calm and confident so that the best version of themselves gets center stage in their health, career, and relationships, so they can finally be who they really are. She can stimulate that change in her clients in 90 days. Karen is also an Energy Leadership Expert, helping her clients discover the four Big Energy Blocks holding them back from success and catapulting them into abundant confidence with the use of the Energy Leadership Assessment Tool. She holds a BS in Marketing and Communications from Rochester Institute of Technology and is a NYS Licensed Massage Therapist. Her pharmaceutical career includes companies such as Bristol-Myers Squibb, Procter & Gamble, Sanofi-Aventis, and Merck. Visit her website at www.caitocoaching.com.

About the Reviewers
Arslan Ali has more than 14 years of experience related to the IT industry and training institutions with 5 years of exclusive experience in teaching various disciplines and projects in an IT institution. He has worked in various roles including software engineering, software testing, training, and quality assurance. The major focus of his expertise lies in coordination, implementation, and testing of ERPs and customized applications. He is also a trainer for context-driven testing for various companies and individuals.

Arslan is currently working at Sidat Hyder Morshed Associates as a Senior Consultant – Information Solutions; but besides that, he is also an active founding member of TestersTestified (www.testerstestified.com) (@testtified), Outtabox! (www.outtabox.co) (@OuttaBoxPk), and OISOL – Open Integrated Solutions (www.oisol.com) as a training consultant for software testing and context-driven testing workshops.

You can follow him on Twitter at @arslan0644 and on LinkedIn at pk.linkedin.com/in/thegoodchanges/.

I would like to thank Impackt Publishing for this opportunity and my father for his reading habits which I successfully inherited in me!

About the Author

Bob McIntosh, a proud introvert, is a career trainer who leads more than 15 job-search workshops at an urban career center. Bob is qualified in the Myers-Briggs Type Inventory and leads an engaging MBTI workshop, in which he encourages introverts to realize their strengths and apply them to their job search. In addition, Bob is well known in the community as a LinkedIn authority; he teaches LinkedIn for Business workshops at a local community college. Bob's greatest pleasure is helping people find rewarding careers in a competitive job market. Follow Bob on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/bob_mcintosh_1 and LinkedIn at http://www.linkedin.com/in/bobmcintosh1.

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Bob McIntosh

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Arslan Ali

Karen M. Caito, CPC, ELI-MP

Adrienne Tom, CRS, CPRW, CEIP

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Melwyn D'sa

First published: August 2014

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