Inside the Mind of an Angry Man: Help for Angry Men and Those That Love Them

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Evan Katz, affectionately known as The Anger Guy, has a unique ability to identify and connect with the underlying causes of anger in men. By telling his own story, Evan leads the way through the angry man's mind, shining light on why angry men really act the way they do. His disarming delivery, open-hearted humor and penetrating wisdom bring enlightenment to the mysteries of a man's rage and expose the path to the personal freedom and respect he longs for. If you're an angry man, or if you feel hurt and mistreated by one, this book will open doors of understanding and help bring peace to your life and your home. As a psychotherapist specialized in counseling with angry men, Evan has the skill, technique and experience to guide men to see things in themselves they haven't seen before. As a public speaker, he guides both professionals and the public through laughter and heartfelt self-examination, down a pathway to begin the journey toward wholeness and renewed relationships.

Anger Interpersonal Relations Family & Relationships Psychology

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Дата публікації оригіналу: 2013
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Angry guys almost always feel unique. They also feel very alone. And even though others have suggestions and solutions, and try to help him, our angry man says, “Those solutions won’t work for me because I’m different.” So they have no one but themselves to get answers from or from which to find happiness. If people don’t do as they want, they try to manipulate. If that doesn’t work, they turn to anger. He does what he needs to feel in control—even if it’s at the expense of those who love him.
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Expectations for purposes of self-esteem are a setup for misery. The irony is that the angry man’s goal of autonomy and independence is actually the converse. In reality, the angry man lives emotionally dependent on others to determine his self-worth. It has never occurred to him that he can find validation and respect within himself. But as he was taught early on, his feelings didn’t matter. His value had to come from someone or something else.
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So look at the extremes. When the angry man experiences some sort of threat or fear, he goes cognitive. When the woman experiences threat or fear, she goes emotional.

The disjoint comes when there’s an extreme on both ends. In general, she leaves her head behind and goes straight to the emotion. And he leaves any sense of feeling behind and goes to his cognitive thinking.
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